Life by design

Life is best live by design, I heard Jim Rohn said that a while back and I sat down and thought about it for awhile and after careful deliberation with my self it became abundantly clear to me that every thing as a point of origin and a designed structure.

Let's look at it for a moment; (just to simplify the explanation let use a guy) a guy went to his tailor and say I have a special engagement coming up and I want you to make me a really nice suit, well what the tailor would do is take his measurement and then he would sit down and create a design on paper according to the strict specification of his client upon on request, factoring all the intricate details he requested and  after finding the exact material he would turn the machine and then Voila the perfect suit. his client is happy he is happy and every one walk away smiling.

This may sound like a simplistic explanation but it is the same with everything in life, everything as a point of origin and a design; just look at it the guy tells his tailor what he wants the tailor then translates his idea into a design and then create a suit to fit.

It is really astonishing to see how many of us miss this simple truth, we go to work not realizing that we are doing everything according to our bosses design when we go to the grocery store or to the department store, when we take the bus or drive our car on the road it is all according to design, the house we live in, the buildings we work at, the cloths we wear, the food we eat and even the very bed we sleep on at nights every single one is all by design.

So let's ask our self this question, if all of these systems, businesses, governments and products that we use every day are all by design and they are having such great success. Why is it that our lives are not by design?  

We cant keep going around like a wondering generality we have to take control and become a meaningful specific, we are making the department stores, grocery stores, car manufacturers, mobile phone manufacturers and network providers more successful, we make our boss richer every day because we are fulfilling their design.

Most people think that life just happens to them and they have no control over what takes place, but what they fail to see is that if you don't have a clear outlined design for your life then your life will be like a leaf blowing in the wind going no where.

“People with out any goals in life get used by the people who have goals”

What are your dreams for your life? Turn these dreams into doable goals to day and get started on designing your own life path, you are the architect of your life it's not really hard it just takes commitment and dedication your helping every one else to fulfill their design and they are becoming  more successful. its time to fulfill your own, Life by Design is your right.

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If you need any help with Goal setting or structuring your life design please feel free to email me. 

Hot Gossip!

Gossip is like a fired bullet. Once you hear the sound, you can't take it back.

How many times have you found your self hating some one or really despising their guts, but when you really thing about it that person as never done any thing to you, we can even take it further to say you and that person has never had any interaction before.

But why is this? How can you hate or despise some one that you have never talked to before? Usually if we should tract the origin of our ill feelings towards a person, place or thing it always comes from some one else and they usually get it from some else.   

If one wants to accomplish great things in life one has to practice maturity. Maturity

Means not getting entangled in unimportant things like petty talk and bad-mouthing other people, what's the Difference between gossiping and cutting one to pieces? There is none. The definition for gossip is (to talk idly, especially about the affairs of others) it does not take a rocket scientist figure out that means you are heading no where.

“Give so much of your time to the improvement of your self that you have no time to criticize or slander others” by Jim rohn.

Remember, people who gossip with you also gossip about you in your absence.

Gossiping and lying are closely related. A gossip listens in haste and repeats at leisure.

A gossip never minds his own business because he neither has a mind nor a business. A gossip is more concerned about what he overhears than what he hears. Gossip is the art of saying nothing in a way that leaves nothing unsaid.

Someone said it well: "Small people talk about other people, mediocre people talk about

Things and great people talk about ideas."

Gossip can lead to slander and defamation of character. People who listen to gossip are

as guilty as those who do the gossiping.

Gossip has no respect for justice. It breaks hearts, it ruins lives, it is cunning and

Malicious. It victimizes the helpless. Gossip is hard to track down because it has no face

Or name. It tarnishes reputations, wrecks marriages, ruins careers, makes the innocent cry, causes heartaches and sleepless nights. The next time you indulge in gossip, ask yourself is it worth it?

There was a story about a young fellow who went about town slandering the town's wise man. One day, he went to the wise man's home and asked for forgiveness. The wise man, realizing that this man had not internalized the gravity of his actions told him that he would forgive him on one condition: that he go home, take a feather pillow from his house, cut it up, and scatter the feathers to the wind. After he had done so, he should then return to the wise man's house.

Though puzzled by this strange request, the young man was happy to be let off with so easy a penance. He quickly cut up the pillow, scattered the feathers, and returned to the house.

“Am I now forgiven?” he asked.

“Just one more thing,” the wise man said. “Go now and gather up all the feathers.”

“But that's impossible. The wind has already scattered them.”

“Precisely,” he answered. “And though you may truly wish to correct the evil you have done, it is as impossible to repair the damage done by your words as it is to recover the feathers. Your words are out there in the marketplace, spreading hate, even as we speak.”

Refrain from indulging in gossip. Remember, small talk comes out of big mouths when you discus other peoples business you motivate them to become a better person and while you build them up your tearing down your self.

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